Are you one of those guys that will spend a lot of time with a girl, feel as though things are really going well, and then she starts confiding in you about how much she wants another man? If so, you are one of those men that tends to find themselves as \"just a friend\" more often than not. This can be really frustrating, especially if it continues to happen with women that you are really excited about.

Many men miss the cues that they are seen as just a friend. If you know the cues, you can spot them when you see them and then hopefully turn things around. A woman will do a few things if she considers you a friend. If you see the following things you should jump on them and try to let her know how you feel sooner rather than later. A woman sees you as \"just a friend\" if she:

Talks to you about her issues surrounding men. Tells you about a hot guy she just met. Asks for your advice about dealing with men. She always refers to your \"friendship\" not your \"relationship\". She tells you how grateful she is that she can talk to you about anything.

These are the most common clues that she has you in the friend category. Luckily, if you act on these statements right away you can turn things around and you may still have a chance with her. If you wait too long or you just assume that she\'ll figure out how you feel and she\'ll feel the same way, you will be forever \"just a friend\". You need to be willing to be assertive about how you feel and really share your feelings with her.

If you want to be done with the \"friend\" part of your relationships with women you need to be able to change the way that you deal with them. You can still be a nice guy, you just need to change your approach. You cannot be too nice, you cannot be too available, and you have to let her know that you have something more than friendship to offer.

How can you break out of the friend rut that you seem to be in? First and foremost, stop making yourself so available to her. Women tend to want what they can\'t have, so while you can be in touch you shouldn\'t be too available. Also, let her know that you are dating other women, this will drive her crazy and may make her realize that she does want you.

Do what she does to you, and ask her for advice about the women you are dating. If she seems to be a bit jealous or responds to your new approach, be bold and ask her out on a date. Treat her like your girlfriend, and if she responds favorably don\'t turn into a door mat, instead continue to be a bit of a challenge. This will keep her interested and will allow you to turn yourself from just a friend into her biggest flame!