So you are still in emotional turmoil and you have heard from your friends that your ex boyfriend has been dating another girl. You may then think that you need to get your ex boyfriend back as soon as possible.

However, you should not rush things. You have the advantage in the situation here because of the memories that you and your ex have together and the experiences that both of you went through. The new girl has no experiences with your ex boyfriend just yet so it is your advantage to use the experiences you both shared with your ex.

So remember those times that both of you were happy. Are there any good times with him because somewhere down the line, the relationship ended didn't it? So do away with fantasy and go back to reality. Remember the memories as real as possible.

The memories that came back to you can make you feel confused about getting your ex boyfriend to return to you. For this reason, you can call your friends and ask them what they think. Tell them you want to hear the truth about their opinions. After getting their opinions, it is now up to you to decide whether or not to pursue your ex boyfriend.

During your visit to your memory, you may find out that there are things in you that could have contributed to the breakup between you and your boyfriend. Take the time off to be able to change that personal issue within you. It will be a disaster if you get back with him without changing your attitudes. The renewed relationship will only last for a few days.

If you really want to get back with him then you should call him or make any other communication with him. Ask him to meet you in a place that is neutral. Just be calm when asking him. Do not frighten him by giving a hint of something big to come his way.

To win ex boyfriend back make sure that when you meet him, you explain to him that you have thought long and hard about what happened in your relationship. You have done some work and sorted yourself out and you have found that you still have really strong feelings for him. Tell him you'd like another chance.

After telling him your side, let him explain his side. You may hear things you do not want to hear but you must remain calm and not be overwhelmed with emotion. Keep your composure and give him some time to think. What you need to do next is wait for his phone call. You will be surprised of what is in store for you.